Forgive me.
It’s unexpectedly been a while since I’ve written.
I unexpectedly found myself in the ER for an emergency appendectomy.
My appendix was spreading infection throughout my abdomen,
and it hadn’t even ruptured.
That was totally unexpected.
I was unaware an appendix could do that.
Going in, all I knew was that there was a “soft mass” visible,
and something was blocking the view of my appendix.
Well, you know where my mind went.
But my precious surgeon put my mind at ease by stating,
“Shelli, this is not cancer;
this is your appendix spreading infection.”
Praising the Lord she was right.
And what do you do when your anesthesiologist tells you to
think of the best dream ever? …
Waking to hear an infection from my appendix
was blocking the view of my appendix and
displacing minor organs was truly good news.
I’ve always heard people say:
it’s harder to recover from surgery the older you get …
They are right.
About to enter an ambulance to be transferred to the main hospital …
an unexpectedly pleasant ride.
Arriving home from the hospital,
I was unexpectedly greeted at the mailbox by a copy of my cover story in
WMU’s Mission Mosaic magazine.
It had escaped my memory due to sickness.
My article is titled Cultivating Faithfulness: WMU in the Philippines.
If you’d like a copy, it is the April 2014 edition.
Go here to order.


After arriving home from the hospital,
our beloved cat, Lucy, unexpectedly took a turn for the worse.
Oh, her health had been steadily declining,
but the timing seemed so horrid.
I was sick several days prior to surgery,
and I could tell she wasn’t feeling well either.
Her eyes squinted. She was probably in pain.
She followed me everywhere, and she always wanted in my lap.
It got to the point if I went to another room,
I’d carry her with me.
She would just follow anyway.
I knew her strength was diminishing.
I was too weak to go to the vet with my family to have her put to sleep;
and I couldn’t even walk out for her funeral that day.
My heart was broken.
I did not expect to love her so much.
But she had really grown on me.
I feel her brother, Aslan, is lost without her for the time being.
But I am so thankful to God for our precious eight years with her.

Lucy is the calico. Her brother, Aslan, is the orange tabby.

My baby girl also turned 14 after I came home from the hospital.
This was not unexpected,
but I had expected to plan a party for her.
I had to release my expectations
and allow my other daughter and my husband to take over all birthday preparations!
 That was not easy.
But I had no choice.
And she was a darling.


I spoke at a ladies’ retreat this last weekend on surviving hardships.
After surgery, I didn’t do much of anything or go hardly anywhere until the retreat …
except for doctor appointments.
I knew I had to save my energy and be well.
God showed up as expected, but the degree of His love is always a little unexpected.
And then you smile and remember His faithfulness.

My mother and my oldest daughter went with me to help me out.
My daughter unexpectedly won the grand door prize of …
a night for two at the hotel I spoke at!
She says she is taking me with her …
a night out for mom and daughter
when I am better.

I could never have made it through this time without God’s love,
my beloved family, and the body of Christ.
You never expect to have to depend on people this much,
but what a blessing when they come through in such an amazing way.
And I’m so grateful.

Anything unexpected in your life?

2 thoughts on “Unexpected

  1. My word! What a rough time you've had. I love how you see all the blessings amid the pain. Praying for you to have a full recovery, to enjoy your sweet family, and to work through the loss of your kitty. Mine died three years ago, and I still miss her!


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