Living On The Border Of Danger

My girl reclines in the dental chair. Her x-rays hang enlightened on the wall behind her.

“You need to wear this retainer,” the man says.


Hard to believe two years had already passed, wearing braces. I didn’t really want to get braces for this daughter because her teeth were straight, her bite was just off a bit. She had the cutest crooked smile. But the doctor insisted that her teeth wouldn’t wear correctly, and she’d have trouble in her later years. But she had a gap in her front teeth for years, and I was told she needed this simple surgery to cut the gums between her teeth to allow her teeth to grow together. I didn’t buy it. And sure enough, her two front teeth grew together over time without surgery. Why did she really need braces? We don’t need perfection. My other daughter’s braces came off months ago, and she constantly jokes that it looks like she’s wearing dentures because her teeth are just too perfect. Too straight.

The dental assistant jumps up and runs toward me. “Did you hear there’s been a mountain lion spotted in your area?” She shows me a picture on her phone. “The dog at Tiger Mart got killed” (this is where we refuel our vehicles, and the sad irony …?).

I want to buckle over with grief. I figured there had been a mountain lion, bobcat, but I had no idea it still prowled around. My mind flashes back to nearly two years ago when our lamb had been killed and eaten. The guilt stabs me time after time. We didn’t protect Bindy like we should have. We didn’t  protect our property. I can still envision seeing her, going to my knees our on Texas land, crying, my husband dragging her sweet remains.

Sandy and Bindy when we first brought them home, and they didn’t like us.
Working hard to gain their love and trust. We miss our little black sheep of the family.

The same happened to my neighbor’s baby goat. They’d been searching for her, neither hide nor hair surfaced. That had been my warning, but I didn’t heed it. We didn’t realize the danger that lurked, that could so easily cross over into our property.

My heart still breaks at what Sandy witnessed. How long she stood nearby the scene, waiting for us to come out and help her. And from that moment on, she wouldn’t leave my side. She’d jump the entire fence to be with me.

Apparently, there’s been a mountain lion in our area for some time. No one’s stopped it. No one’s caught it. It leaves trails of death, sandy-powdery tracks. We hear about it from time to time.

Some are helpless to do anything about it, helpless to protect their large herds of livestock. How can they?

Some make light of it. Do they have nothing to protect? Have they not been injured?  Do they not understand? Do they not live in the danger zone?

We don’t make light of it anymore.

We basically live in a slim shade of fear. But that’s how the world is … carnivorous. I know that mountain lion needs to eat. And I adore mountain lions. Beautiful. But I don’t want my babies killed. Sheep meat might be purchased at the grocery store, but not my sheep meat. And I don’t want to be hurt or my girls hurt. I’ve heard of mountain lions tearing off people’s faces in broad daylight.

We walk our property line daily.

One must protect their own.

I think of the wall of fencing where we’ve enclosed our sheep. Blankets hang over the wiring to keep out the cold wind, to keep them warm and protected. We’ve done just about all we can do. We can’t keep them totally protected, there’s no way, so I pray the perpetrator isn’t that smart. Maybe it’s just enough to deter.

Sandy couldn’t make it alone. She needed a companion. So here is baby Ginny.
Ginny and Sandy

But a few weeks ago, my husband found a powdery print outside the pen in the sandy soil. Right outside the gate. I found the blanket that drapes against the wall of fencing half torn down. Like something had sought to devour.

Some mornings, the babies just seem spooked.

We put the sheep up every evening. By morning, if I think we’ve forgotten, I go into sheer panic mode, unable to recognize myself, until I see their sweet faces, see they’re safe. See that I really did protect them.

Ginny and Sandy, all grown up
Sandy and Ginny

My gaze returns to my daughter’s x-rays. The old x-rays versus the new ones. What? Look at those huge gaps in her back teeth. Goodness, that bite was really off. I look at my baby girl smiling. Perfect, straight teeth now.

Was it that bad before? Really? I didn’t realize they were so bad. Sometimes it takes comparing where we are now to where we were to see that we really needed change. Desperately needed change. The danger had just crept in so slowly. Year after childhood year.

“If you wear this retainer every day for six months and every night after that, your teeth will stay in place. They’ll be protected. Everything that you’ve worked all these years for will remain intact. It’s so important,” the dentist says, trying his best to enlighten her.

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8 thoughts on “Living On The Border Of Danger

  1. Shelli, even while you’re speaking of danger and warning us, your writing is beautiful. Thank you for reminding me to heed wise advice as I seek to walk in His Light. I love visiting your home via your blog and Instagram pictures.
    Blessings to you & your beautiful family ~ Wendy

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    1. Thank you, Wendy … you are the best. Katelyn and I have been walking together … we used to walk at different times, but now we keep an eye out for each other as we walk the trail. After our sheep was killed … I was afraid to go back there for a while … just didn’t enjoy walking like I did. Time passed, and now I do enjoy it again. But … then you get a reminder that you should always be careful. Ugh. I’m not 100% sure what I even meant by it all … just on my heart in so many ways. Just feelings that I’m still trying to work through … ❤

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      1. My mama heart understood what you meant. There’s a lot of things to watch out for when raising teens. My mind is a mesh of prayer and pondering. I need God’s continual guidance to sort out what’s small stuff and what isn’t. May He blanket your home with His safekeeping love. Years ago, we lost silky chickens to a raccoon breaking into the hen house–so sad. xo

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  2. Awww, Shelli. Another beautiful post. We do need to protect our own. Your words remind me of the importance of protecting my boys through diligent mama-heart-felt prayers. They’re both dealing with some struggles right now. And I know the lion seeks to devour and destroy them. I’ve been praying, seeking help from those wise than I, and trying to find the best ways to speak truth to them. I’m so thankful that God is our ultimate Protector. He’s the best at this, and I’m humbled that He invites us into this role alongside him.

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    1. Yes, and you know, Jeanne … He wants us to ask Him for help each step of the way. It’s strange how we ask for help for some things, but then we carry the burden for others. Like … why wouldn’t we just ask Him? At least for me. Some things I throw to Him immediately … others, I just keep and forget to ask. Though … thank goodness He knows our hearts. He answers us before we even ask. I’m so grateful. And you are so wise to seek help from those who have gone this path of boys before you … don’t reinvent the wheel … learn from others. You’re a good mama, Jeanne. ❤


  3. I was so drawn into this post. There was heart all over it. And your title–I guess that’s where we are, isn’t it? All of us. So close to danger, and yet your writing brought me to a place of safety.

    Thank you for being you. I feel like we’ve been friends for years~~

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    1. Julie, I found you! ❤ Your comment had gone into my spam folder … and I just didn't know how to find the folder. I feel like we've been friends for years, too … Well, it's been a couple of years. You always bless me, Julie. xoxo

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